Why? What makes them feel that way? What are the signs of needy men? What traits that can make a man be marked as needy by women? Let's see them one by one.
- Inability to lead. There is no other workaround for this: you must be willing to take your role as leader in relationship. Women instinctly attracted to strong men, not primarily physically, but those who pose themselves as capable leaders . In spite of the the rise of feminism throughout the world, women can not deny their naturally built-in preferences to be lead instead of leading in their relationships. So, if you the one that always say "It's up to you" to your girlfriend, it is time to change! It's you who has to decide, not her! It is your job. Do that as best as you can. Show her that you are the man that can lead and will lead. That you are not one of those weak and needy men!
- Low self-confidence. Confidence, along with leading quality, are the most important thing that every man must have for their successful dating life. Needy men hardly shows confidence. Because instinctively women attracted to strong and confident men, the absence of it can quickly turn them off.
- Clumsiness/Nervousness. This commonly happens to both men and women. But when it happens to men, it can do more damage than to women. Why? Not only because it will make him too scared to approach, but also because that nervousness can make the girl thinks of him as needy and clingy.
- Insecurity feelings. Insecurity and lack of confidence are like codependent twins. And insecurities usually take the form as over-jealousy or over-possessiveness. If you need to always know what your partner doing, thus make you behave annoyingly by calling or texting her numerous times a day, then you have this problem
- Too available. Always yielding to the girl you like won't give you better position, too. If you have this problem of inability to say no to her requests - even when actually you have something else to do that you have planned weeks or months before - then you must stop that. It will only make her perceive you as a weak guy, a guy that has a boring life. Those needy men have that kind of life too, at least in women's thinking. Being always available might work at the beginning. But soon she will take it for granted, thinking as if she deserved it and it was your duty to serve her whenever she wanted.
